Principles of Adult Behavior

On August 15, 2013, Barlow participated in a Reddit AMA, where he shared his “Principles of Adult Behavior”, which were originally written in 1977 on the eve of his 30th birthday and have been in circulation ever since:

Be patient. No matter what.
Don’t badmouth: Assign responsibility, not blame. Say nothing of another you wouldn’t say to him.
Never assume the motives of others are, to them, less noble than yours are to you.
Expand your sense of the possible.
Don’t trouble yourself with matters you truly cannot change.
Expect no more of anyone than you can deliver yourself.

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Van Gogh writes…

In a particularly impassioned letter to Theo from October 2, 1884, Van Gogh writes:

If one wants to be active, one mustn’t be afraid to do something wrong sometimes, not afraid to lapse into some mistakes. To be good — many people think that they’ll achieve it by doing no harm — and that’s a lie…
That leads to stagnation, to mediocrity. Just slap something on it when you see a blank canvas staring at you with a sort of imbecility.

You don’t know how paralyzing it is, that stare from a blank canvas that says to the painter you can’t do anything. The canvas has an idiotic stare, and mesmerizes some painters so that they turn into idiots themselves.


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Fat And Thin by Anton Chekhov

The friends kissed each other three times, and gazed at each other with eyes full of tears. Both were agreeably astounded.

“My dear boy!” began the thin man after the kissing. “This is unexpected! This is a surprise! Come have a good look at me! Just as handsome as I used to be!
Just as great a darling and a dandy! Good gracious me! Well, and how are you? Made your fortune? Married? I am married as you see. . . . This is my wife Luise, her maiden name was Vantsenbach . . . of the Lutheran persuasion. . . . And this is my son Nafanail, a schoolboy in the third class. This is the friend of my childhood, Nafanya. We were boys at school together!”


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Altman (2014.) – lični ugao i kratka kritika

Kako je nastupila pauza između kraja godine i početka roka, imao sam nešto slobodnog vremena prethodnih dana, tako da sam odlučio da se malo posvetim istraživanju opusa zanimljivih i istorijski važnih reditelja (Perdžanova, Končalovskog) i ubrzo sam došao do opusa Roberta Altmana. Dobro, možda i nisam imao odnosno – nemam, ali sam rešio da sebi odvojim vreme.

Ranije sam gledao tri njegova filma: “The Player”, “McCabe & Mrs. Miller” i “Gosford Park”.

Altman SS2

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